Alina

My values: maturity, tranquility, rest in nature, reliability, mental stability, and total honesty with myself.
I view a relationship with a man as an interaction between two Whole Personalities, each with their own world, where communication is built on mutual respect and care. I am not looking for a complete merger with another, nor do I want anyone to dissolve themselves in me. Life is incredibly varied, and it is a great happiness to have mutual support on this path. The family is like a team, but with a clear division of roles and an understanding of who is the Leader and who is the follower (and she/the children are BEHIND him).
I don't need superficiality; I need depth in relationships. Trusting relationships in the calm contemplation of the world.
I am an introvert by the architecture of my brain, but I have grown a thick extrovert's skin to work and communicate in society.
At this stage of my life, I have assembled myself into a Whole. I know myself and what I want from life and relationships very well.
Self-education is my lifestyle in various fields. I feel a strong connection to medicine and the topic of bodily health and maintaining well-being, so I independently study medicine and methods of healing the body. Chinese medicine, Ayurveda.
I study psychology and practice self-reflection. But at the same time, I know how to appreciate the moment here and now, because no one knows if tomorrow will come. And the ability to find joy in the little things—a cup of delicious tea, the rustle of trees, a cool breeze—is a very important skill. One should enter into a relationship with another person primarily after one can have an honest conversation with oneself, when one understands oneself. Some try to plug their wounds and pain with another person or a relationship, which always leads to sad consequences. Therefore, one must come into communication with another from a state of abundance, not deficit. Only with this attribute will there be happiness and harmony with each other.
My hobby : Biking, walking, forest nature, country trips, watercolor painting, dancing (hip hop, bachata). Snowboarding, rollerblading in summer, ice skating. SUP boarding, swimming, gym. Hiking, painting, psychology, business literature, self-analysis, self-reflection, writing. Archery, firearms shooting, cars. Occasionally golf, when there's company.
Regarding a partner: This is more about a resonance of character qualities with mine. Perhaps he will be an ambient, like me. Appearance and nationality are not of primary importance here. I would like him to be physically larger than me. It is important to me that I am understood and that no one tries to remake/change me or dissolve themselves in me. The ability to accept each other and to listen is crucial. And therefore, it will most likely be a man with his own clear personal boundaries, his own life rules, and vision of the World. He is the Leader in the relationship, I am the follower. And it is important for me to feel a sense of protection from the world when I am beside him.